Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Could not agree more. So many changes lately at my work place. We are venturing into new programmed and support. Changes is good. Life is a journey after all. We fall, hit by a bus ..run by a car or simply can be just dancing our way...either or it will be something worth to remember.

My home is wonderfully occupied. Few more touch up and it should be done in no time. My last sister settle in college. Stern reminder to keep her ground. We will keep our eyes on her like a sniper. Advice and words of wisdom to her has already been beyond our limits. It is in her hands now. 

If she chose a successful one then victory is hers. If she chose otherwise then nothing much we can do. Success and victory of life comes in different terms and level. Depending on individual...some chose to life a simple life while others crave for shooting stars.

To me, as long as our life journey is full of good deeds and we learned from every experienced that we've walk through ...it is already a successful journey. Dollar and cents cannot buy happiness but it is much more comfortable crying in a car rather than on the road. So we pick our switch accordingly.

I guess the key ..very basic key in our life is we must be grateful for what we have first. Stop looking for things that we do not have. Why not start with those that we have around us. It can be anything....

I am so grateful even to wake up alive daily. God has given me a chance to live yet another day. How will my day be ? I don't know but .....I will start with a very positive vibes. 

Who does not have problem ? Loneliness and sadness....everyone walked through it. At times we feel our life partner is not the person whom we hope he/she is to be. Analyze carefully during this time...it is really he/she that hopeless ? When we find/found some one's mistake - do take into consideration what he/she has did it correctly or rightfully.

Pointing fingers at flaws is the easiest things to do. Can that flaws be polished or shape up ? If yes then do it. Or better still, before looking at other's flaws ...take a look at ourselves - are we that perfect ? I m sure we are not.

20 years being on my own - walked through hell and heaven. What I am today is very much because of the wrong and right choices. 

I've learned the art to love myself and be grateful with what I have. Then, I make plans to live a better live. 
Simply try not to chase for something I don't have..filing in the gap so I thought my life will be happier if I have this and that. Reality is ....I am already a very happy person. 

My family, lover, friends and even my job....place to stay, clothes to wear, ability to taste food, healthy and many more...these are my daily grateful to my creator.

Never fail to thanked God for what I have in my life. Cast a pray to HIM with list of things that I want.

Of course HE may give or may not give but I trust in Almighty God...HE may not give me what I want but HE will give me what I need. 

We all crossed that wrong path many times. Still doing it too for some...whatever it is most important we know when and where to stop.

How well we want to exhale and change to live a better life. Things that hurt you, make you sad and live miserably should be stop. 

There is a saying  ~ One cannot ride your back unless you bend it. It means the choice is ours. We chose to be happy or to be hurt or to be sad....it is our choice.

Do not ever let anyone hurt ourselves for whatever reason it is. Have pride and sense of protection. 

And do not ever ever beg or bow to anyone for a mercy if at all we did not do anything wrong.
That is so wrong...so so wrong....

Live in a manner of  "Do not do anything that you do not want people to do to you"

God give us mind, body and soul...use it wisely. As long as we stand on correct path then there is nothing to be worry about. Truth will always be truth AND a lie will forever be a lie.

If we living a lie then a lie it is.....no matter how much we try to bring happiness to it....promise heaven and rainbow - it will not happen.

Whilst if we stand on correct ground...all that could happen is challenged and obstacle to stay afloat.
We will have less people around or less popular but hey...we have that peaceful night sleep guaranteed.

Be very careful too in telling others about ourselves. People rather applause when they saw us collapse. Few will lend their hands. 

It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you.

Life is a journey after all...through good and bad we sure will learned something....strive and exhale.
Be a better person than a day before. Count our blessing and live to the fullest.





This wonderful June is my Birthday month. Come a long way - hitting 38 years of age has been worthwhile. 

Base on Greek - the name Georgie means "farmer",...you got to be kidding me!