.....pick that quotes from Internet. I loike !
Nice cosy weather. Yesterday it rains the whole day. I had a good time packing ; yeah...trust me...its become a routine and I just unable to stop. Woke up at about 8am this morning..the rest of the world gone out to work and am at home, start packing till my tummy start to growl then I realize I have to eat...
Settle few things with the management, had big fat breakfast. Back to packing and then I slept till 3pm. Exhausted plus the weather was just too good. It has been a while since I had a good afternoon sleep...dreams still there..disturbing. Do not know what else to do to chase that away. My mind is so restless.
Step out to the nearest mall for a while, grab few things and buy dinner.
Tomorrow is another day before my Big Day !...spoke to my mom too...she jokingly asked me what food I got at home since she is coming over day after....I said ; I am so lucky now even to have found where my panties are...the house is in mega mess... :)..she laugh her lung out.
Being all by myself lately, makes my soul more relax and focus. Rain or shine ; life goes on. I have made my choice and not turning back nor regret about it. Making the best out of it.
Shan asked me the other day, is he being too detail about things. I said, I am the person who see mostly the outer big picture with minimal details at times. It is good to have someone that tame me down a little.
I can be very ambitious and eager to grab whats coming without even thinking. He banned me for one year from purchasing any new shoes, handbag, clothes etc..unless it is necessary. He learned the trick too quickly on how to handle me at shopping....its no secret anymore. darn ! :)
Good things are pouring....I am bless...gonna walk this path with a sign
THE SEXIEST PARTS OF MY BODY ? MY BRAIN, MY SPINE AND MY GUTS !!
Boxes, old newpaper, feather duster, mask, garbage bag...errr...gosh am lost !
Finished my second phase of packing...it feel like forever. Wonder when will it get done !. Lucky me Shan is around to help, otherwise it will just get worst.
Am relief to have all the process went smoothly. Collected my new house key this afternoon. My parent will be down in couple of days time. Mahin had finalize the transportation.
I have to iron out few things tomorrow, Shan will be working on Monday; thereafter I will see him. Gonna clean up my new house tomorrow. Bought new things which I need too ; trying my level best not to purchase the entire shop. Its too tempting...its ok..slowly start to buy new stuff and eliminate the old ones.
I have empty the entire kitchen too. My mom will give me new set of cook ware.
The list is getting shorter, with of course millions more things to do just add up. At times I do scared that I m over challenge myself. Shan told me to be careful of my wish list, if things just start to pour at one time ; I will be in trouble.
I will be on leave till next week 6th February. The beauty of being in this country is that, you get to celebrate all kind of festival. I took the advantage of several holiday in this February. 1st is Federal Territory and 3rd & 4th is the Chinese New Year.
How I wish I just can laze around and sleep..well if its not for this shifting agenda I would pack my bag and head home to my parents.
Above all, I am glad and thankful enough everything went well.
Am relief to have all the process went smoothly. Collected my new house key this afternoon. My parent will be down in couple of days time. Mahin had finalize the transportation.
I have to iron out few things tomorrow, Shan will be working on Monday; thereafter I will see him. Gonna clean up my new house tomorrow. Bought new things which I need too ; trying my level best not to purchase the entire shop. Its too tempting...its ok..slowly start to buy new stuff and eliminate the old ones.
I have empty the entire kitchen too. My mom will give me new set of cook ware.
The list is getting shorter, with of course millions more things to do just add up. At times I do scared that I m over challenge myself. Shan told me to be careful of my wish list, if things just start to pour at one time ; I will be in trouble.
I will be on leave till next week 6th February. The beauty of being in this country is that, you get to celebrate all kind of festival. I took the advantage of several holiday in this February. 1st is Federal Territory and 3rd & 4th is the Chinese New Year.
How I wish I just can laze around and sleep..well if its not for this shifting agenda I would pack my bag and head home to my parents.
Above all, I am glad and thankful enough everything went well.
People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute. - Daria
Busy week again....on training for new skillset. New things...new words..new scope. Back into the classroom make my head spin. Yet to start on my assign project which is Fine Dinning. Can't wait to try out
those high end restaurant which at times make your tongue roll in pronunciation. It will be fun nonetheless !
My first assignment is rather progressing, being a champion on travel skillset its like walking down the memory lane. Back to square one of what travel deal is all about. Its like love to hate thing.
My colleague was sharing with me today that she feel like on the wrong field. For me its too soon to tell. The classroom training can be boring..yes but it better than being thrown into the open field to try and error.
I would rather know what I am getting into rather than blindly learn from error.
I miss chatting with dear Ms Joanna Oh a.k.a my clone as Shan put it. Fun rainbow like days with her around. We just can be ticklish and giggle like school kids for no absolute reason....any self invented language if quickly to understand....that's the fun part !
Tomorrow is another day.....finish with this week..next whole week gonna be a training ground for me....pack and unpack...sweaty week ....shred those KGs...
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~Maya Angelou
those high end restaurant which at times make your tongue roll in pronunciation. It will be fun nonetheless !
My first assignment is rather progressing, being a champion on travel skillset its like walking down the memory lane. Back to square one of what travel deal is all about. Its like love to hate thing.
My colleague was sharing with me today that she feel like on the wrong field. For me its too soon to tell. The classroom training can be boring..yes but it better than being thrown into the open field to try and error.
I would rather know what I am getting into rather than blindly learn from error.
I miss chatting with dear Ms Joanna Oh a.k.a my clone as Shan put it. Fun rainbow like days with her around. We just can be ticklish and giggle like school kids for no absolute reason....any self invented language if quickly to understand....that's the fun part !
Tomorrow is another day.....finish with this week..next whole week gonna be a training ground for me....pack and unpack...sweaty week ....shred those KGs...
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~Maya Angelou
When Writing the story of your life, Don't let anyone else hold the pen.. :)
I have been wanting to share on this issue of friendship. Words are getting away. It rather difficult to express how I truly feel about the whole incident that happen to me lately. Too often I gave in cause of obligation and the care in me. But when one already sit on top of my head...thats a done deal for sure.
Previous update on frustration and pacthed back all now gone to the drain. I can't lie or cheat myself anymore. Its time to walk ahead and leave what meant to be leave behind. My mind has made up. Let time heal, no point I let the air burn with hate and sadness.
The famous saying...if you love somebody, set them free..if they return in time, it is yours..if not it was never yours in the first place.
Through years and time friendship often build by things in common and true feelings of care and love. As time passed, everyone changed cause of things that happen in their life. For good and for worst it does have and impact on ones life nonetheless.
I am taking a huge step further now. Not looking back at all. There are so many things to be done. I can't stay behind to baby sit an ignorance attitude...as my friend Dev said....if they refuse to dance with us...care a damm !...its our song..its our tune...
No one should be hold back against their willingness to exhale. Those who draw you back is because they are jealous with your achievement...to survive and success the obstacles is overwhelmed...the wave just amazing..
but when we drown and drop on our knee..the whole world just clap their hands.
I do not want to walk on that path anymore. I am amaze with myself at times on things and achievement that I manage to overcome the challenge myself. Self confidence and self assurance to overcome the negative attitude needs huge will power.
Even it may seems minor tiny whinny issue to some but to me, facing the bitter truth about our own attitude and overcome it..that's a great achievement. Accepting and admitting the truth and failure of our own self
is more noble than trying to preach to others about how things should be done.
Self confession is a great step to heal and exhale.
As I am packing for my new house....tons of rubbish of my past ...chuck it ! throw away....start fresh...life is beautiful and life goes own.
I am done with it...ain't gonna touch this topic again....
Boulevard Of Broken Dream
I walk a lonely road The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes but it's home to me and I walk alone
I walk this empty street on the Boulevard of Broken Dreams
Where the city sleeps and I'm the only one and I walk alone
My shadow's the only one that walks beside me my shallow heart's the only thing that's beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me 'Til then I walk alone
I'm walking down the line that divides me somewhere in my mind
On the border line of the edge and where I walk alone
Read between the lines what's fucked up and everything alright
Check my vital signs to know I'm still alive and I walk alone
Previous update on frustration and pacthed back all now gone to the drain. I can't lie or cheat myself anymore. Its time to walk ahead and leave what meant to be leave behind. My mind has made up. Let time heal, no point I let the air burn with hate and sadness.
The famous saying...if you love somebody, set them free..if they return in time, it is yours..if not it was never yours in the first place.
Through years and time friendship often build by things in common and true feelings of care and love. As time passed, everyone changed cause of things that happen in their life. For good and for worst it does have and impact on ones life nonetheless.
I am taking a huge step further now. Not looking back at all. There are so many things to be done. I can't stay behind to baby sit an ignorance attitude...as my friend Dev said....if they refuse to dance with us...care a damm !...its our song..its our tune...
No one should be hold back against their willingness to exhale. Those who draw you back is because they are jealous with your achievement...to survive and success the obstacles is overwhelmed...the wave just amazing..
but when we drown and drop on our knee..the whole world just clap their hands.
I do not want to walk on that path anymore. I am amaze with myself at times on things and achievement that I manage to overcome the challenge myself. Self confidence and self assurance to overcome the negative attitude needs huge will power.
Even it may seems minor tiny whinny issue to some but to me, facing the bitter truth about our own attitude and overcome it..that's a great achievement. Accepting and admitting the truth and failure of our own self
is more noble than trying to preach to others about how things should be done.
Self confession is a great step to heal and exhale.
As I am packing for my new house....tons of rubbish of my past ...chuck it ! throw away....start fresh...life is beautiful and life goes own.
I am done with it...ain't gonna touch this topic again....
Boulevard Of Broken Dream
I walk a lonely road The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes but it's home to me and I walk alone
I walk this empty street on the Boulevard of Broken Dreams
Where the city sleeps and I'm the only one and I walk alone
My shadow's the only one that walks beside me my shallow heart's the only thing that's beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me 'Til then I walk alone
I'm walking down the line that divides me somewhere in my mind
On the border line of the edge and where I walk alone
Read between the lines what's fucked up and everything alright
Check my vital signs to know I'm still alive and I walk alone
I've learnt.....(an email from a friend)
I've learnt...
that the paradigm we live in
is not all that is offered to us.
I've learnt...
that credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.
I've learnt...
that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.
I've learnt...
that although the word "love"
can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.
I've learnt...
that it's hard to determine
where to draw the line
between being nice and
not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
Hugs are warm, Hugs are nice... Hugs are ways To break the ice...
If you send me a hug You won't regret I'll hug you back So you can't forget!
A hug is just a way to say, I love you in a special way, To tell that someone special, I care about you in every way.
When you shed a tender tear a hug is sure to be near. When you're trembling in fear a hug will come from someone dear.
Wrap your arms around someone near In your hug is the circle of life. A new beginning to an endless day A ray of hope to light your way.
Take a hug and pass it on don't save them up it can't be done. Share them with family and friends, share them whenever you can.
A hug will make you "aahh" A hug will make you "oohh" A hug will make you smile A hug will make you feel great.
A hug lightens up your day A hug throws away your loads A hug strengthens your ties A hug makes you feel important.
Stop! Take a break! A hug is harmless It only takes a little of our time Why not share a hug? We all need a hug, don't we?
that the paradigm we live in
is not all that is offered to us.
I've learnt...
that credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.
I've learnt...
that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.
I've learnt...
that although the word "love"
can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.
I've learnt...
that it's hard to determine
where to draw the line
between being nice and
not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
Hugs are warm, Hugs are nice... Hugs are ways To break the ice...
If you send me a hug You won't regret I'll hug you back So you can't forget!
A hug is just a way to say, I love you in a special way, To tell that someone special, I care about you in every way.
When you shed a tender tear a hug is sure to be near. When you're trembling in fear a hug will come from someone dear.
Wrap your arms around someone near In your hug is the circle of life. A new beginning to an endless day A ray of hope to light your way.
Take a hug and pass it on don't save them up it can't be done. Share them with family and friends, share them whenever you can.
A hug will make you "aahh" A hug will make you "oohh" A hug will make you smile A hug will make you feel great.
A hug lightens up your day A hug throws away your loads A hug strengthens your ties A hug makes you feel important.
Stop! Take a break! A hug is harmless It only takes a little of our time Why not share a hug? We all need a hug, don't we?
Caller + Customer Service = ........................... ?
several occasions that I lost it to several customer service personnel in one of the telco company. It make me feel so bad after that...but not during I express my dissatisfaction....it feel damm good....the thereafter
OMG ! you feel like sh**i !...why did I do that in the first place ?....anger and frustration ? its my right ?
I m paying for it ?...all those,
But the funny thing is, many of us especially Asian culture ; the mindset is that....being firm, aggressive, demanding and rude will get things their way. At time its like they forget, the one on the other line is also
consumer, daughter, son, child, mother, father, grand parents...etc...bottom line its human too.
Why can't one be nice enough then ? When I accept this job...I literally recall all those 'rude' moment
that have made over the years with customer service personnel just because I was irritated and frustrated
over the failure to get what I want.
The personnel on the other hand at times got to be blame too. Admit it !...if I were to make a call to JW Marriott hotel in comparison to ABC Hotel...which one do you think I would be serve better ?
I even at times have to make call around the world. The most beautiful challenge I ever encounter is when I have to make calls for sourcing information to those country where English language speaker is a luxury asset. No matter what, they will try to make the caller understood and deliver the information as professional as it is. Even at times it leaves me dizzy...cause of the language barrier...
Before putting up this issue here, I was 'abuse' by a caller. The moment the call was pick-up this person blurt out all the information and reason why he call, and a little complaint on the services giving me no room to interrupt. Politely I seek his name and contact number (protocol reason)...then advise him in polite manner that he has reached the incorrect number. He blew his top....told me that I m wasting his time....I was like HELLO !.....then he slammed down the phone.
I laugh to myself and think...what a pity.
One thing for sure, ever since my soul searching...I find these kind of small petty thing un important anymore. I can't recall any days since that I am like BAD MOOD !....no such thing anymore...cause I look at life differently....my heart are more tamed and my mind is more free....and my vision always reached on the positive side of everything.
Its true when you safe guard yourself...the 'virus' breached ain't gonna be easy....nothing can get into your way easily. I won't say I don't lose my temper....but ...naaah its the last thing I want to do. Its the guilt thereafter that I cannot take it.
I hate to do things when I do not want others to do to me. do you like to be yelled ?...though it is your mistake ?...whats wrong with talking nicely....?
One of the Medical Operation stand-in OM Ms Belma ; she is French by the way. She share with us ...her father always told her this....chew three times more before you swallow. Before saying anything ....
Pause ...Think and Think again...if you don't..you gonna bite your own tongue...
which is true........
www.happybirthdaymylove.com.my
To : Shan is Shaun
From : Me
Date : 14th January 2011
Msg :
Happy Birthday !
To : Me
Date : 14th January 2011
Msg :
Mmuah..muuuahh…mmuuaahh..tq dear..
From : Me
Date : 14th January 2011
Msg :
Happy Birthday !
- Thinking of you with love on your birthday and wishing you everything that brings you happiness today and always
- To the world, you may be one person. But to me, you are the world.
- It's as easy to stay in love with you as it was to fall in love.
- Happy Birthday my love!
- It is not being in love that makes me happy but it is being in love with YOU that makes me happy.
- With each year I love you more and more.
To : Me
Date : 14th January 2011
Msg :
Mmuah..muuuahh…mmuuaahh..tq dear..
Angel's Path....Devil's Dent...
Last Saturday, I went for house viewing with Shan. Though it’s a condo….I don’t feel appealed
To it. The area is so pack….high populated area. Its in convenient for me to travel in and out
Form it. The LRT station is further away, definitely not walking distance.
Frustrated, I head back then Mahin called me to informed there is another place around my area.
Got the agent number from him and I went there right away.
It’s a brand new condominium. Nice place and convenient enough for public transport. If I recall
Correctly, this is the condo that Bobby purchased over a year ago. After much consideration
I paid deposit on Sunday. Got butterfly in my tummy all day after day. I m moving out
To a new house after so many years. A bit away from the convenient….but it’s a new challenge
I m taking over.
Then another issue to tackle is my housemate. He want to follow suit, I gave condition on the prompt
Payment. He Agreed.
Broke the news to Kakak and Janu on Monday. They more or less able to accept it, by April
The are moving out too. Own house…which is better. Janu is unwell….but much much better
Yesterday. Sometimes things happen when we least expected it. The most closes person to us
..the one who are so nice to us is the culprit of pain and endurance more than our imagination.
I called up my parent asking them for assistance. Hope they can come over to help. I have to start packing up.
Gosh !...its so so so many things…I might have to throw almost half of it.
Apart from this issue…life is great ahead of me. My head dizzy at times thinking and planning on
things to be done. I got few boxes yesterday from Illy. More to it, has to be purchased. Anne informed
me where to go about it. Probably Saturday I need to go and buy then.
To it. The area is so pack….high populated area. Its in convenient for me to travel in and out
Form it. The LRT station is further away, definitely not walking distance.
Frustrated, I head back then Mahin called me to informed there is another place around my area.
Got the agent number from him and I went there right away.
It’s a brand new condominium. Nice place and convenient enough for public transport. If I recall
Correctly, this is the condo that Bobby purchased over a year ago. After much consideration
I paid deposit on Sunday. Got butterfly in my tummy all day after day. I m moving out
To a new house after so many years. A bit away from the convenient….but it’s a new challenge
I m taking over.
Then another issue to tackle is my housemate. He want to follow suit, I gave condition on the prompt
Payment. He Agreed.
Broke the news to Kakak and Janu on Monday. They more or less able to accept it, by April
The are moving out too. Own house…which is better. Janu is unwell….but much much better
Yesterday. Sometimes things happen when we least expected it. The most closes person to us
..the one who are so nice to us is the culprit of pain and endurance more than our imagination.
I called up my parent asking them for assistance. Hope they can come over to help. I have to start packing up.
Gosh !...its so so so many things…I might have to throw almost half of it.
Apart from this issue…life is great ahead of me. My head dizzy at times thinking and planning on
things to be done. I got few boxes yesterday from Illy. More to it, has to be purchased. Anne informed
me where to go about it. Probably Saturday I need to go and buy then.
Lioness weekend gateway ! Home sweet home !
its first Friday in the brand new year ! my schedule is getting busier and am full force on the job. Its too soon to tell but I m excited !..the synergy is very strong in our team..its fun and happy days.
I had an appointment to view a condo unit tomorrow. Its brand new condominium. I do hope it will be convenient for me though. As long as close to train station I m ok with it. The owner seems nice too. He is a dentist in our military based in Kelantan. He's unable to make it for the viewing; his parent will do the guiding tomorrow. All fingers crossed.
Apart from that I also got another condo unit schedule for viewing. Its near by my current place. Brand new condominium too. But the agent unable to confirm the viewing date yet. He of course offer me couple of options..which I m not too keen
My boss Brian, suggested that I try around his condo area. Its a bit pricey knowing that area, easy access to KLCC.
Last night I went for dinner with Winnie at Kakak's house. Janu came back early from work...then Siva joined in. The group just got famous. Lots of issue raised. Winnie was a bit sad knowing that I am shifting out. She is more sad to learned that Janu is also moving out by April 2011. Looking at things going for now, I am the one to shift out soon enough.
My plan is by February, that whole long stretch of holiday. If I apply for 2nd February 2011, I will get 9 days solid off from work. 1st is our Federal Territory day and 3rd and 4th is Chinese New Year...I will be away from 29th January to 7th February 2011. Gonna take this opportunity to shift and settle everything...again finger crossed !
Our friendship are parting away...this guardian angel circle is breaking up into own direction. Well we had a good long year, thats for sure.
I've know Sivagami for 12 years then Janu came in, then Winnie then Kakak.
Overall its a good many many years of friendships.
We plan to have small gathering on designated date. I might however pushed the date earlier as 1st April 2011, I could be on shift work already. Planning a good event for girls night out..just the 5 of us. Make a good memory for it.
Above all, I do love my life and I m glad things are moving positively too among my friends. I may not have plenty to name as friend list but these small group that I have did a wonderful job over these years.
Lighting Your Way
by justageorgiaguy
If I was one thing, I'd be a candle
Lighting the way so you can handle
Your life easier without woes
Not having to fight with your foes.
I'd help keep you from stumbling over
Things blocking your path to an open door.
If I light your path, life is easier,
Even strong winds, my light will not deter.
No matter what, I'm here for you
To cheer you up when you are blue.
Do not fret when times get tough,
If things look down or kind of rough.
Just remember, I'm always here,
In your heart, close and near.
I will help you out in every way,
Happiness and love in your heart will stay.
Don't blow me out, that's one request
Unless it's me you do detest.
I do not try to hurt anyone
That isn't good or any fun.
But one day you may leave me behind
You may no longer need my light to shine.
If that day comes, go on your way
And I will hope to see you again one day.
If one day, I don't appear,
Do not worry, do not fear
I may be gone, but in your heart
The light I gave you did not depart.
It will be there forever and a day
To always bring happiness and light your way.
Farewell for now, I'm needed elsewhere
If your path grows dark, in your heart, I'm there.
So I'm really not gone, just not seen,
I would not leave, I'm not that mean.
Only one simple request that I must say,
Please, never forget those who lit your way.
I had an appointment to view a condo unit tomorrow. Its brand new condominium. I do hope it will be convenient for me though. As long as close to train station I m ok with it. The owner seems nice too. He is a dentist in our military based in Kelantan. He's unable to make it for the viewing; his parent will do the guiding tomorrow. All fingers crossed.
Apart from that I also got another condo unit schedule for viewing. Its near by my current place. Brand new condominium too. But the agent unable to confirm the viewing date yet. He of course offer me couple of options..which I m not too keen
My boss Brian, suggested that I try around his condo area. Its a bit pricey knowing that area, easy access to KLCC.
Last night I went for dinner with Winnie at Kakak's house. Janu came back early from work...then Siva joined in. The group just got famous. Lots of issue raised. Winnie was a bit sad knowing that I am shifting out. She is more sad to learned that Janu is also moving out by April 2011. Looking at things going for now, I am the one to shift out soon enough.
My plan is by February, that whole long stretch of holiday. If I apply for 2nd February 2011, I will get 9 days solid off from work. 1st is our Federal Territory day and 3rd and 4th is Chinese New Year...I will be away from 29th January to 7th February 2011. Gonna take this opportunity to shift and settle everything...again finger crossed !
Our friendship are parting away...this guardian angel circle is breaking up into own direction. Well we had a good long year, thats for sure.
I've know Sivagami for 12 years then Janu came in, then Winnie then Kakak.
Overall its a good many many years of friendships.
We plan to have small gathering on designated date. I might however pushed the date earlier as 1st April 2011, I could be on shift work already. Planning a good event for girls night out..just the 5 of us. Make a good memory for it.
Above all, I do love my life and I m glad things are moving positively too among my friends. I may not have plenty to name as friend list but these small group that I have did a wonderful job over these years.
Lighting Your Way
by justageorgiaguy
If I was one thing, I'd be a candle
Lighting the way so you can handle
Your life easier without woes
Not having to fight with your foes.
I'd help keep you from stumbling over
Things blocking your path to an open door.
If I light your path, life is easier,
Even strong winds, my light will not deter.
No matter what, I'm here for you
To cheer you up when you are blue.
Do not fret when times get tough,
If things look down or kind of rough.
Just remember, I'm always here,
In your heart, close and near.
I will help you out in every way,
Happiness and love in your heart will stay.
Don't blow me out, that's one request
Unless it's me you do detest.
I do not try to hurt anyone
That isn't good or any fun.
But one day you may leave me behind
You may no longer need my light to shine.
If that day comes, go on your way
And I will hope to see you again one day.
If one day, I don't appear,
Do not worry, do not fear
I may be gone, but in your heart
The light I gave you did not depart.
It will be there forever and a day
To always bring happiness and light your way.
Farewell for now, I'm needed elsewhere
If your path grows dark, in your heart, I'm there.
So I'm really not gone, just not seen,
I would not leave, I'm not that mean.
Only one simple request that I must say,
Please, never forget those who lit your way.
Sharing moments................
Dev Anand says :
Thank you G for remembering that phrase.
It was actually by Mother Theresa…….she was asked, “ you have been to many part of the world , helping the needy, what you think the worst disease or sickness in human you hv seen”.
She answered without hesitation:
“ The feeling of unwanted and loneliness”…this is the biggest and the most dangerous disease a human can get.
The root of all evil and commit suicide……
I read this so long ago but I keep it in my heart ……everyday…….
Love you G
An email from a friend to me....interesting and lovely.
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio :
To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion.
Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come...
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
Thank you G for remembering that phrase.
It was actually by Mother Theresa…….she was asked, “ you have been to many part of the world , helping the needy, what you think the worst disease or sickness in human you hv seen”.
She answered without hesitation:
“ The feeling of unwanted and loneliness”…this is the biggest and the most dangerous disease a human can get.
The root of all evil and commit suicide……
I read this so long ago but I keep it in my heart ……everyday…….
Love you G
An email from a friend to me....interesting and lovely.
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio :
To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion.
Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come...
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
Two Thousand Eleven
Eleven years gone since.....can't believe it at times. I crossed over this new year with smooth relaxing - stay at home with my friends..Janu, Kakak and of course my dear lover Shan. As the clock hit midnight....the scene was memorable...Shan and Janu busy lighting up the altar for prayer..then we hug each other with wishes.
I fell ill on Sunday..terribly ill. Bed ridden on Monday and am back to work today.
Things are moving just fine. I got to gear up myself with all the upcoming event of my wish list.
At times I am clueless of what to write here, though there are mere moments for things that happen I do feel like to share with all readers of things that happened around me.
My dinner with Dev Anand was a fond memory. I finally got my perfume...a scent that I love the most. I do hope he is glad with the long sleeves shirt I bought for him.
I need a house badly too. Janu told me that they will shift out by April 2011 to new house in Cheras. I think its a good move. Had a long chat with Kakak on Sunday. Its funny feeling as I used to share my vision and mission with Janu before...but thing left uncertain as she is still trapped
in her own world. The unspoken anger and dissatisfaction at times just bring down her soul termendously.
To move forward...we need to let go the past. Everybody change along the way as our aged passed. The question whether it is forward or backward ? I myself is not the same person anymore...whats remain with me is my heart and soul...the inheritance from my parents...attitude wise, vision and mission is already changed.
Over the years..I believe that ; if we have a peace of mind, nothing can stop us to materialize our dream. Peace of mind in the sense of controllable..there is not such thing as problem free of course..but the least I do understand the very very basic thing that every human should and must have is LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
We we have this, it will work like a shield. It protected us very well cause any decision making will first go to very basic judgement...will this cause me trouble ? pain ? tears ? happy ? rich ?...when our brain answers that then our soul automatically gives lingers on decision to be made...should it jeopardise our own self or not.
These however is easier said than done..with out bitter life experience, endurance, agony and pain...its not easy to achieve it.
I like to look at things beyond the normal vision of our two eyes. Even words of wisdom...example like 'One shall not know the value until the experience of lost'....its basic and simple..but to those who have felt it...its a different meaning...a whole new world.
Something that I discovered before new year, ever since I have this positive mindset and positive believe in myself...happier attitude..I don't remember any one day I m having a bad mood day. If the temper or anger sparked ..it will died off quickly. Nothing gets into my way..I mean
those tinny winy stupid..childish thing..like if i woke up late..oh dear that's it....my day..screw up...not anymore. I absorb it as a positive thing..hey its my fault right..so why lashed my anger?...
Unless if my tail being stepped over non accidentally..then..lets talk !.. huhuhu.. :) apart from that...'nothin gonna get my way baby!'
I've suffered from heart burning problem. Reduce my food intake to more healthier..it does work. I m much better nowadays. I can't afford to risk
my health anymore..age is catching by..now need to gear up and get back on my feet...morning run. I miss that terribly..I miss Reint too.
My chat with Kakak does keep my soul going...it feel good to spread the goodness and vision with people who understand. I might not be able to help in dollar and cent but, sharing knowledge is always noble.
Dev Anand once told me..the worst thing that happen to human is loneliness.
We both stay on our own, but we have hell of a good time cause we make use of what we have. Its like..enjoy our sanity before we lost it.
Love yourself
Make peace with your past ; so you can accept the future
Always look beyond two naked eyes ; there are hidden lesson indeed
I fell ill on Sunday..terribly ill. Bed ridden on Monday and am back to work today.
Things are moving just fine. I got to gear up myself with all the upcoming event of my wish list.
At times I am clueless of what to write here, though there are mere moments for things that happen I do feel like to share with all readers of things that happened around me.
My dinner with Dev Anand was a fond memory. I finally got my perfume...a scent that I love the most. I do hope he is glad with the long sleeves shirt I bought for him.
I need a house badly too. Janu told me that they will shift out by April 2011 to new house in Cheras. I think its a good move. Had a long chat with Kakak on Sunday. Its funny feeling as I used to share my vision and mission with Janu before...but thing left uncertain as she is still trapped
in her own world. The unspoken anger and dissatisfaction at times just bring down her soul termendously.
To move forward...we need to let go the past. Everybody change along the way as our aged passed. The question whether it is forward or backward ? I myself is not the same person anymore...whats remain with me is my heart and soul...the inheritance from my parents...attitude wise, vision and mission is already changed.
Over the years..I believe that ; if we have a peace of mind, nothing can stop us to materialize our dream. Peace of mind in the sense of controllable..there is not such thing as problem free of course..but the least I do understand the very very basic thing that every human should and must have is LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
We we have this, it will work like a shield. It protected us very well cause any decision making will first go to very basic judgement...will this cause me trouble ? pain ? tears ? happy ? rich ?...when our brain answers that then our soul automatically gives lingers on decision to be made...should it jeopardise our own self or not.
These however is easier said than done..with out bitter life experience, endurance, agony and pain...its not easy to achieve it.
I like to look at things beyond the normal vision of our two eyes. Even words of wisdom...example like 'One shall not know the value until the experience of lost'....its basic and simple..but to those who have felt it...its a different meaning...a whole new world.
Something that I discovered before new year, ever since I have this positive mindset and positive believe in myself...happier attitude..I don't remember any one day I m having a bad mood day. If the temper or anger sparked ..it will died off quickly. Nothing gets into my way..I mean
those tinny winy stupid..childish thing..like if i woke up late..oh dear that's it....my day..screw up...not anymore. I absorb it as a positive thing..hey its my fault right..so why lashed my anger?...
Unless if my tail being stepped over non accidentally..then..lets talk !.. huhuhu.. :) apart from that...'nothin gonna get my way baby!'
I've suffered from heart burning problem. Reduce my food intake to more healthier..it does work. I m much better nowadays. I can't afford to risk
my health anymore..age is catching by..now need to gear up and get back on my feet...morning run. I miss that terribly..I miss Reint too.
My chat with Kakak does keep my soul going...it feel good to spread the goodness and vision with people who understand. I might not be able to help in dollar and cent but, sharing knowledge is always noble.
Dev Anand once told me..the worst thing that happen to human is loneliness.
We both stay on our own, but we have hell of a good time cause we make use of what we have. Its like..enjoy our sanity before we lost it.
Love yourself
Make peace with your past ; so you can accept the future
Always look beyond two naked eyes ; there are hidden lesson indeed
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